I have to say that after moving here I think a lot of the stuff that I would have found rude before, I now tend to overlook. Listen when your trying to get out of a packed subway, you are just going to have to push some people.
It definitely has made me more closed off then I used to be. When I first started coming in the NYC on a regular basis, I would offer to help carry bag or strollers down subway/ train stairs all the time. Now I don’t even bother stopping. Not because I no longer want to help, but because I got so many people shouting, “No!” at me that I’d rather not get yelled at for just trying to help.
I think the only thing that I find really rude is when the people in my building don’t hold the door open for me when I am coming in and they are on their way out. To explain, we have two doors that you have to go through to get into our building. Both require you to unlock them to get in. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been unlocking the first door while someone is walking out the second door, only to have them let that door slam, yet expect me to hold the first door for them on the way out. It is clear I have a key to get in since the locks are the same and I am opening the first door, would it kill you to hold your door open so I don’t have to unlock that one as well?
If it happened once, OK, then I could say it was just that one person, but it happens almost everyday when I get home from work, no matter who is walking out.
Do you see why we don’t like the other people in our building?






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